1. Reveals a cold heart and lack of fervent love to Christ
who instituted local churches (Revelation 2:4 & 3:20)
2. It shows disregard for the apostolic example and command of God's holy Word. (Acts 2:41ff; Hebrews 10:25)
3. It robs you of blessing and help for the days ahead.
4. It cheats the brethren of blessings and help they would receive from your
mutual ministry to them (Thessalonians 5:14; Hebrews10:24, "And let us consider
how to stir up one another to love and good works." ESV
5. It grieves the Holy Spirit who dwells in each believer individually, and in the church as a whole.
6. It grieves the Elders who oversee you and minister
the Word of God to you. (Hebrews 13:7 & 17; 1 Thessalonians 5:12,13)
7. I can influence others, by your poor example, to become
unfaithful, lazy, indifferent and selfish. (Many young Christians have said, "Brother or Sister So-and-So do not
come regularly, why should I?" You are a letter known and read by all men.
(2 Corinthians 3:2, 3a)
8. It discourages brethren in the body with whom you are joined.
9. It is a poor testimony to unbelievers who see you inconsistently. (see John 13:35; 1 John 3:13,14)
10. It demonstrates your lack of vision for the future
of that particular church of Jesus Christ in which you are a member. (Jeremiah 29:10,11)
11. It makes you a covenant-breaker in your commitment to God and to the church where you are a member.
12. It is a dreadful and empty step toward backsliding
and apostasy. (study Hebrews10:25 in its context of verses 19-39)
13. It shows disrespect for the best and the brightest
day of the week, Sunday- the Lord's Day, the day on which the Lord Jesus
rose from the dead.
A Christian is saved by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone
and this saving grace causes One to love Christ's churches (see Psalms 27:4;
84:1, 2 & 10; 87:1-3). If there is no love for Christ's churches or no
concern to be identified with a local church, the one's faith is suspect.
True and saving faith creates a love for the things Christ loves. He "loved
the church and gave Himself for it," (Ephesians 5:25) John Owen put it well
when he says:
"It is the duty of everyone who professes faith in Jesus
Christ, and takes due care of his own eternal salvation, voluntarily and
by his and by his own choice to join himself to some congregation of Christ's
institution...no particular person is to be esteemed a legal, true subject that does not appear in these His courts with
a solemn homage to Him." (Works, Vol. 15, 'Duty of Believers to Join Themselves in Church Order,' pp. 319-327).
May each of us say from his heart, as David said of old, "I was glad when
they said to me, Let us go into the house of the Lord." (Psalm 122:1)