Are you Thinking About

Homeschooling? Here's

What you Need to Know

Author: Patricia Bennett

In today's fast-paced, understaffed and sometimes dangerous public
school environments, it is a heavy burden for parents to decide where
to send their child to be educated. Socialization has such a large impact
on children, and the wrong environment can set them up for a life of problems:
Not to mention worrying about whether your child will be given the attention and
direction they crave. It is for this reason so many parents are deciding
Homeschooling is the best option.

Every family provides a certain amount of homeschooling, teaching children
many life lessons and educating in different areas. Choosing to homeschool
your children full time is a wonderful experience for any parent, as well as an
opportunity for your child to be steps ahead of others their age. This is because
one on one teaching means more information can be learned in less time, where
as in school, children are absorbed in classes of forty or more.

Not only are homeschool parents responsible for their child's academic education,
but they also have to ensure their child has plenty of opportunities to interact with
others their age. Sports, having friends over and vice-versa, telephone conversations
and social outings should all be regular parts of their weekly curriculum.

Some parents prefer to homeschool their children up to a certain age, feeling it
better prepares them for mingling with other children and contributes to the
development of a stronger identity earlier in life. For example, you may opt for
homeschooling until your child is ten years old, then upon discussion with them,
enroll them in school. By this time, you have had many talks with them about
subjects such as peer pressure, bullying, choosing friends, respecting authority
and getting the most out of their education. Of course, every child is different
and many parents like to gauge from the child when they are ready to attend.
Most children will reach a point where they start to ask why they don't go to
school like other children. For this reason it is also a great idea to socialize
with other parents who homeschool so your children don't feel like they are the only ones.

Ignoring all external factors, you need to seriously consider if you are the
right type of parent to homeschool your child. You have to be very honest
with yourself because it isn't for everyone. Ultimately your main reason has
to be that you will thoroughly enjoy interacting, teaching and learning from
and with your child, growing closer and getting to know each other better.
Other questions to ask include:

I. Are you a patient person?
II. Do you possess excellent communication skills?
III. Do you multi-task with ease?
IV. Are you naturally organized?
V. Can you give constructive criticism and correct mistakes with your child?
VI. Are you naturally creative?
VII. Can the family survive on one income?

If your answer is yes to all but one or two, and they are areas you're aware
you need to work on, you may still like to give home schooling a try on a trial basis:
If you answer yes to all of them, homeschooling is definitely suitable for you.
The next thing to look at is how does your child feel about being home-schooled?
Some children are fully aware that in a short while they will be old enough to
attend school, and they simply can not wait! Others are more sensitive, less
sociable and less aware that is what children their age are doing. As best
you can, have several discussions with your child to determine how they feel,
and if they seem pleased to learn at home with mommy or daddy then you can begin.

Each state has its own level of control over children undergoing homeschooling.
There can be either no regulations, low, moderate or high regulations:
As the name suggests, each state exerts rules in relation to exam and test results,
hours of study and evaluation, and high regulation states are extremely difficult to
home school in. States with no regulations don’t even require you to notify
education departments or government authorities that your children won't be
\attending regular school, and low usually requires notification only with no
monitoring of competencies for students.

In preparing for homeschooling your child, you will need to gather materials
such as books, lesson guides and plans, movies and other activities. The best
thing you can do is work out whether your child learns more easily through
looking, listening or hands on processes and design your lessons around that.
The best resources are the library and websites designed specifically for
homeschooling parents, and second hand shopping at flea markets or
charity stores will often lead you to some excellent text books at very low costs.
There are also pre-packaged home schooling courses available for extra guidance.
It is a wonderful idea to try and incorporate the local environment whenever you
can: for example, when learning about water, spend a day visiting different types
of water in the local area. Educational outings are a great way to ingrain
knowledge through all the senses, so research ahead of time where you can
possibly take your child for some real life examples that relate to what they are learning.

There are some common mistakes made by parents homeschooling their
children, and being aware of them is all it takes to avoid them. Be sure to
make your child reach beyond their current knowledge, as far too many
parents don’t express any expectations and fail to motivate the child to do
better. Be sensitive to the way they learn instead of teaching the way you
find it easiest to learn, and don’t give the child control over the schedule.
Make sure the class plan is clearly established, stating upfront how long
you will spend on each subject and enforce rules in the "classroom" relating to
being tidy, raising their hands with a question, break times and consequences
for their actions, good or not so good.

When you are sure this is the avenue you want to take, you should subscribe
to some good homeschooling websites or newsletters such as Homeschool
Success News. There are programs to aid parents in teaching at home,
chat rooms and other networking mediums for parents to compare and
learn from each others ideas and experiences. Homeschooling is an
opportunity for parent and child to bond deeply in a safe and controlled
environment, and they are years you will treasure in your memory forever.

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